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Information + The Internet

Posted by shane On August - 29 - 2006ADD COMMENTS

Everyday, every hour, every minute, every second, somewhere on Earth, some sort of information, whether it be text, an image, an MP3, or some random file, is uploaded to the Internet. News sites are updated in real time as an event occurs, blogs are updated as often as some great event happens, whether it be personal or not, YouTube is updated at the whim of every Internet user and MySpace is updated everytime someone breaks up with someone else.

In essence, the Internet is life in real time. As already stated, someone is updating some web site every second of everyday. You are probably saying, great, I already knew this, what is your point? My point is, when we post this information, do we think of who will read it or who won’t read it? Do we consciously decide that this should be posted on the Internet for the world to see or do we post on a whim?

Major news sites have editors and chains-of-command that try to prevent posting information on a whim. Multiple people have to read the article and facts have to be checked and then checked again. However, what about the blogs; the web sites created and maintained by regular people like you and me? Do we honestly think about the consequences of what we write and how it will affect other people we know or might not know? I have heard that once something is uploaded to the Internet, it can never be deleted. If that is true, we should really be thinking a lot more before we post anything.

This post has been spurred by a discussion between me and a friend about what I have posted in the past and therefore, I must answer my own question. Let me first say what I think a blog is and go from there. A blog to me is essentially a journal/diary/etc where you can vent about your life and the world around you. Most of what I post deals with me and not much else. If I didn’t post a lot of what I have, the world wouldn’t miss it.

However, here and there I do post stuff that involves other people, some who read and some who don’t. Sometimes I post information and such on purpose, to try and see if I can get a reaction out of someone, whether it be negative or positive, therefore thinking of who might be reading. On the other hand, when I know the person I am writing about will be reading, and I don’t necessarily want it to be obvious, I try and be vague; sometimes being more successful than others. When I do not succeed, it affects people reading, sometimes in a positive way, and sometimes in a negative way, and so I must be aware that I am affecting someone and take the necessary steps to insure that doesn’t happen the next time.

Then I have the third kind of post, which will most likely down the read get me in trouble: posting on emotion or a whim. This happens from time to time, mostly at night, when I am just in a weird mood. When posting like this, I normally only quickly think about other people that might be affected and then post on, ignoring the world around me and throwing caution to the wind. I can’t say for sure, but I believe this is where most people will get themselves in trouble, especially myself. Emotion and posting are not a good combination, at least not in my opinion.

I don’t know where I was really going with this, other than to ask the question of if people really think before they post. I only have answers for myself: how I post and my thought process. However, it seems as though, we should always care because there will most always be someone out there affected by what is written; whether it be ourselves or someone else we know and care about.

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Truly happy being single?

Posted by shane On August - 16 - 20062 COMMENTS

I do not miss you randomly calling in the morning.
I do not miss emailing back and forth throughout the day.
I do not miss calling you on my way home from work.
I do not miss coming back from work and talking to you for hours on end on the computer.
I do not miss calling you everynight before bed talking for an hour +.

I do not miss being tied down.

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Picture Says It All

Posted by shane On August - 8 - 2006ADD COMMENTS

Shane's New Hair

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On my trip:

Posted by shane On August - 6 - 2006ADD COMMENTS

I learned that…

  • I hate cream.
  • I hate ketchup.
  • (story for above hatred available on request)
  • I have too many clothes and now have even more than too many clothes.
  • Fish & Chips is damn good.

I found a t-shirt at Big Dogs:

Big Dog's T-Shirt
I was very tempted to buy it, but alas, I did not.

Quick entry, but oh well. Have a good one…

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I would like to apologize to…

Posted by shane On August - 3 - 20061 COMMENT

…my best friend Michael who went with me to the DMB concert @ Riverbend in Cincinnati but was unable to make it to the Blossom show.

Why am I apologizing you ask. The answer is found in this quote from the Cincinnati Enquirer’s review:

The place was hot – very muggy, very uncomfortable. Between songs, Matthews wrapped his arms around himself and pretended to shiver, as if he were cold. (Stop it, Dave, you’re killing me!)

Now that the noteworthy details of the night have been revealed, we turn to the music, which was not presented differently than the year before or the year before that.

Both of us did not enjoy the concert, although there were highlights like a 20+ min Seek Up opener, Dancing Nancies –> Warehouse, So Much to Say –> Too Much and a Jimi Thing with Warren Haynes, even if it was a little uninspired and Warren added next to nothing. During most of the night, it seemed as though there wasn’t the spark that is typical of a DMB show. No Dave dancing, no running around the stage by Boyd, no great solos by Carter, just DMB going through the motions, or so it seemed to me. We left the concert on a very sour note, when DMB decided to play a one song encore consisting of Everyday, because of the heat, curfew or both. Originally scheduled for the encore was Sister and Two Step, which would have drastically improved the setlist and therefore our opinions of the show.

Let’s fast forward to the Cleveland show, minus Michael, where it was NOT as hot as it was in Cincinnati and the show was drastically better. Songs that were repeated, such as Jimi Thing and Louisiana Bayou, had better, more interesting jams and it looked like DMB might actually be having fun up there. Now remember, in Cincinnati, Jimi Thing had Warren Haynes, a special guest; in Cleveland, no Warren (but it did have Butch singing, huh?) and it was miles ahead of the Cincinnati version. This simple fact right here, that a song with a guest was worse than the same song without a guest, tells me that DMB mailed it in when they played Riverbend.

The two shows, only separated by approximately 24 hours were like night and day. In Cincinnati, you had all the radio hits almost played as if you were listening to them on the radio. In Cleveland, you had jams and honest effort by the band to play a good show. An American Baby Intro –> Two Step encore is definitely something that will energize a crowd.

Sure it was hot out in Cincinnati and maybe they wanted to play a simpler show because of the heat, but the show was sold out. People paid anywhere from $40 to god knows how much for their ticket and deserved a good show, no matter the temperature. If it was too much to handle, take a break in the middle and come back out and play rejuvinated, and play with the spark I know they have; don’t mail it in just because its too hot out for you. Also, the curfew, screw the curfew. If DMB really wanted to, they could go over no problem, but they didn’t want to. At Blossom, they came out at 10:45ish and played 2 jam’esque songs and probably went over by 10 minutes or so, costing them some money. Everyday? By itself? I mean come on, if you wanted to, you could have wow’ed the crowd with Ants to top it off and people would have definitely left with not such a sour taste in their mouth.

Maybe it was the heat, maybe it was the stoned drunks around me, maybe it was me, but Cincinnati just seemed like nothing special at all from a band who is definitely capable of being very special. Oh and from here on out, I will never sit on the lawn, forcing myself to deal with underage stoners who have had too much to drink that they can’t even stand up. I miss the days when concerts were about the music and not the scene…maybe it is truly time for DMB to take a break.

Michael, I am sorry that the one show you saw this year, included DMB mailing it in simply because of a little heat. DMB: adapt and change, you could have put on a much better show if you tried; I know, I saw it at Blossom.

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